What's your Standards?

One of the first things I did was mellow out my standards. I decided that the type of guys I had dated in the past, I wasn't going to date that type this time. Usually, I went for looks first. Yea, like most men have been doing for years.

But, I decided that it didn't matter if he was light-skinned or dark-skinned, as long as he loved me with all his heart, and believe me to be one of the most beautiful woman he has seen. And when I say loved me with all his heart that includes my children. It's impossible to love me but not them.

So take your time and determine how you want to approach meeting your true love. It's important to think about the type of mate you want first. And no matter what, stick to it. He/she is out there, just perfect for you.

Oh, if you're in a relationship and looking for true love. It may not happen. It's important to bring in less baggage as possible. Break-up, or Divorce your current mate first.

I was in a relationship when I first started looking for my true love, but I didn't find him til 3 months after I left the one I didn't want anymore. So, please whatever you do, don't start a relationship until you have finished your involvement with the current relationship.

Ask yourself these questions: Do I want my mate to be a drinker? a smoker? a Taurus? a Christian? Tall? Short? Hard worker? Be employed? Have loving family background? loves his/her mom? with/without children? Slender/Heavy?
There's many things to consider.





Remember you're looking for the person that's right for you and your lifestyle. You want someone that will fit in with your family. It is true you are marrying their family, and vise verse.
Make sure this person will be a good fit. These are all important factors and is good questions to ask once you meet a potential love interest.

Always Always Be Safe!!
Lillian